An erect penis – was what I had I
recently during one my first naked personal training sessions, and then, it was
embarrassing, yet really it shouldn't have been as we can become aroused in many different ways, it
does not always have to be sexual. When we remember this there is no embarrassment..
We all have a penis and know what it is like to attempt to be in control of it - yet sometimes we cannot control it. Our penis really can have a mind of it's own. Sometimes it will do just what we want it to, but it can let us down, by not responding – or by responding in a mischievous way, in certain situations - by becoming erect when it may be inappropriate.
A naked personal training session is not an inappropriate place - if an erection happens it is no problem as we are training your whole body and it is an exciting fitness experience - so your whole body can react in different ways,
..in one of my first naked sessions a year or so ago I became aroused – not in a sexual way, if I'm really honest I don't know why – perhaps in a free and liberating way. This arousal resulted in me getting an erection which became an embarrassment, which then in turn began to override any feelings of arousal, and the erection subsided. Yet I was not sexually aroused – just aroused, similar to how we may be if we were to smile, or laugh.
Yet because the body part that responded, is thought of as the sexual organ - it can be assumed that it is always to do with sex, yet maybe it is not.
We can confuse excitement and contentment with sex – as our penis can be more responsive when we are relaxed and happy, those times when it does not always take a lot for it to rise to any occasion, whether sexual or just excitement in some form.
Therefore if we get an erection in front of another man we should not be embarrassed and it does not mean we want to have sex with him. It is just a display of emotions similar to a smile. If someone smiles at us we tend to smile back at them, therefore if we get an erection maybe it would be no bad thing if the other person also became erect!
We all know that we can at certain times have an erection – yet not want to have sex. An example of this is when we awake in the morning with an erection, our penis may be hard but we don't always want to do anything with it.
Whilst in a sexual encounter an erect penis will invariably mean we are ready for sex, in a personal training session it does not mean we want to have sex – it is just a display of our emotions and our arousal, which may be due to the exciting feelings - that even clothed personal training can evoke. Alternatively the arousal may be due to doing something different and exciting, after all we generally tend to exercise with others when we are clothed, so to do it naked can bring a strong emotion of excitement and a liberating feeling of freedom.
As much as anything I am writing this for my own explanation: if my penis becomes erect during a naked personal training session, it does not mean that I want to have sex, it is just due to an arousal that can be for a whole host of reasons: ranging from feeling excited and free, right through to relaxed and contented. So an erect penis during a naked personal training session should be taken as a compliment and similar to a smile – as a display of good emotions and nothing more, apart from possibly a complement to you as you must be good company, but it really does not mean there is any intent or desire to have sex.
In our personal training sessions we'll perhaps think of an erect
penis as a smile, that way there will be no embarrassment form either of us!
Dictionary definition of arousal.